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A Doctor's Guide to Preparing for Bottoming: Enjoying Anal Sex and Staying Safe
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Oct Now, when you are a hormonal, shy and unconfident person such as myself at least back then, anyway — the thought that someone would actually want to have sex with me was enough for me to completely drop my guard and say OK! Unfortunately, they seemed more concerned with how good it felt for them, rather than how comfortable I was. I had never ever experienced anything like that before — and nothing could prepare me for what was to come.